In the fall, you don’t grieve because the leaves are falling and dying. You say, “isn’t it beautiful!”
Our lives are the same way. There are seasons. We all fall sooner or later. Hard moments happen to us at one point or another. It’s all what it is.
It’s beautiful to be a leaf, to be porn, to fall, to give way to the next, to become food for the roots. It’s life. Always changing its form and always giving itself completely. All doing its part. No mistakes.
When the rough moments happen to us it’s our story that brings the lasting pain. When we tell our story, we realize that it was a leaf falling and dying and giving birth to new life. Always giving birth to New life.
Realizing that this event or person or situation or scenario has giving you new life. That hurt, the pain, the betrayal, the tears, it’s fertilizer in the soil that’s growing in you right now. How do I know this? Because you’re standing here and telling me the story.
There are no mistakes in nature. There are mistakes in the way we look at life, in the one sided stories we tell about how things are and aren’t, should and shouldn’t be.
Lack of clarity and lack of understanding is always painful.
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